Monday, April 26, 2010

moving on

The step son has now managed to get his GED. But now to get a job and support his family not his family supporting his family.
I actually thought being a step mom would get easier as they got older and moved out, apparently I was wrong.
My husband and I are weighing the pros and cons of totally up rooting and moving out of state. I honestly think it would be the best thing for he and I, but it wouldn't be too great for my children I don't think but then again it might be better. Who knows?
It is either we do it now or wait 6 years. But then again within the 6 years we are going to be constantly the ones always letting the kids move in and out and totally disrupt our lives over and over again because his children can't and wont grow up because they don't have to. They aren't forced to here, mom and dad always rescue them or always bail them out of life. That isn't fair to them or me.

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