organizing a household

The Nuthut as I fondly call it; is about to get a makeover in organization and I'm delagating.
Its 10:30am Saturday morning and no one besides me has gotten up with the baby. This morning we got up and ate breakfast, her with her bananas, apples and strawberries with rice cereal and I with my morning coffee. Baby Aurora (8 months old) between bites has been telling me of her travels of the previous day. Its mornings like this that remind me when my kids were little and the mornings we shared that I thought then would last forever. They don't! You blink and they are gone in an instant. Yes, quite like Aurora's parents I took them for granted although I never slept through them.........
Today, is going to be the day my husband and I inform her parents ( my husbands son and his girlfriend) of our expectations of them while they are staying here getting on their feet. This will also be the time where I find out why child support people are comming after my step son if they are all living together. I got lots of questions and I better be getting some ansewers.
In this relationship my husband the big lug that he is, is the enabler. I am the hard straight and narrow one. So as you can imagine there are lots of arguements over the kids on both sides.
As of right now his son and baby and girlfriend staying on our couch is starting to effect my children and their outlook on life. So change is going to have to happen for all concerned.
Wish me luck